With the busy schedules most couples take on, there is so little time for fun together. Exhausted and stressed from working, TV seems to be the default form of relaxation. This is very unfortunate. Even while sitting together in the same room, you may still feel alone and disconnected and these feelings carry over into the bedroom. Playing games together instead can help reignite the fun and happiness in your relationship. Playing together can also help improve communication with each other and help maintain that intimate closeness that we all cherish and need.
There are many types of relationship, foreplay and sex games for couples available but any game for two will do. Just play together and have fun. With a little imagination though, you can easily spice up your favourite games by adding a few sexy forfeits and erotic rewards. Go beyond simply stripping and include an entire range of delicious treats to win. Guys tend to like games with a bit of challenge. If you blend good game play with a variety of intimate foreplay techniques, women will surely enjoy them too. The two elements combined will satisfy both men and women. By engaging mental, physical and emotional stimulation while playing an intimate game together, you can transform your relationship with enhanced fun and exciting interaction.
My wife and I like to add a sense of competition to our intimate games and reward skilled (or lucky) play with exceptional foreplay. We design them in a way that encourages each other to sample various types and intensities of stimulation for a total sensual experience. More exotic activities can be assigned to rare events or as rewards for exceptional skill. You will want to design the game play in a way that avoids excessive repetition of any specific foreplay activity. Also give each other opportunities to opt out of certain activities if you are not ready for them yet.
For shy or slightly inhibited lovers, playing a normal game together can also help get them into the mood for more intimate fun. Prepare an inviting play area to set the mood (pillows on the floor in front of a glowing fire with candles, wine and soft music is good). Suggest an innocent game then slyly introduce pleasuring rewards and foreplay forfeits as you play. Include clothing removal paced throughout - being forced to strip adds to the excitement but you don't want to get naked too quick. Build the intensity by escalating to more explicit types of sensual intimacy as the foreplay games progress. By following the rules of the game, people tend to give themselves "permission" to step outside their comfort zone - a passionate desire to win can be very stimulating.
So spice up your love life tonight with a few competitive games involving sensual rewards or sexual forfeits. Encourage more creative variety and risqué fun by choosing exciting games that offer a challenge. Set the stakes to be mutually rewarding while encouraging each other to sample new types of pleasure. Adults need to play too so here are some ideas for erotic variations of games you already know and love:
Queens Gone Wild
An erotic variation of chess with a special focus on the queen. It incorporates stripping and foreplay activities based on how your queen is played. And, as with many women, in this game she gets to play again and again. Although the ultimate goal is to mate the king, playing with the queen makes this game more interesting. For every combination of capture involving the queen, assign an intimate activity suitable to the value of the pieces. Rather than just check mate, assign sex activities to every combination of piece that can take a king (no stale mating allowed). Also, when a queen is taken, the owner can remove an item of clothing and have their opponent place it back anywhere on the board to play again.
This erotic adaptation of the classic board game allows you to buy happiness in the form of foreplay activities. Rather than renting houses, you build pleasure parlours and sell your special services. Foreplay activities are performed when a player lands on your properties and pays the appropriate fee. As the monetary stakes increase, so does the intensity of foreplay. You win when your lover has no money to pay for love and must sell their services to you. Consider each side of the board to be a pleasure district. For each district, improvements will increase the type and intensity of foreplay performed when a player lands on the property. Define four sets of five foreplay activities each with increasing intensity corresponding to successive improvements (1-4 parlours, brothel). Since you are playing with just two people, add this extra rule: If you have all but one of the properties in a set, you have the option to buy the final one if another player lands on it first. But, to exercise this option, you must have and then remove an article of clothing. Take a look at Frisky Business or the Strippoloy enhancement package for other erotic Opoly style variations.
This risqué game of world conquest and domination for lovers leads you through an increasingly more intense sequence of foreplay activities. The ultimate goal, of course, is to dominate each other and have fun doing it. Sensual activities are performed when you capture countries from your lover. As the conflict escalates, so does the intensity of the foreplay. Win by conquering all the countries of the world. The victor receives the spoils of war and becomes supreme ruler with corresponding rewards. Assign increasingly intense foreplay activities for each card set turned in since they become more valuable as well. Play with the normal two player rules but if you take over at least one of your lover's countries, they perform the foreplay activity assigned to the current card set value. And when ever you turn in a card set, you must also strip off one item of clothing (war is costly).
Jump for Joy
This is an erotic variation of Strip Checkers with a little bit more to it than just stripping whenever you capture a piece. To make if more challenging, you only receive a foreplay reward when you capture multiple pieces in one move. Also, your lover only strips off an article of clothing when you jump their king or queen with a regular piece.
This is an erotic variation of the Sorry! board game. When you "bump" your lover and send them back to the start, saying Sorry! just isn't enough - apologize with sensual pleasuring. And, when you get a piece home, your lover strips off an article of clothing in anticipation of activities to come. You can define a set of foreplay ideas to correspond with each of the card values and perform the activity assigned to the card played when bumping your lover.
Remember To Have Sex
An erotic adaptation of the Memory game using a standard deck of cards. Assign intimate activities to 26 same colour pairs of cards. You can create 13 each for male (black) and female (red). Shuffle and lay out the entire deck face down. Attempt to find matches by turning over only two cards at a time. Activities performed are determined by matching pairs of the same value and colour. If a match is a different colour keep the set but no activity is performed - you don't necessarily want to do everything on your pleasure menu. The player with the highest number of matches wins a special sex play activity or fantasy. The last two cards will be a match so no one should win this set - also ensures there will not be a tie. Optionally, use the value of this last card set to choose a winning sex activity from a card based sex menu. Include stripping in your foreplay activity list or play multiple games with the winner stripping off one item of clothing.
Tied Up Foreplay
War is a simple yet popular card game for two that involves trying to capture cards from each other. When the cards you each flip up are the same value, a war ensues with a side game to determine the winner of a new set of cards. If you tie again, you have a double or triple war - fairly rare events. To transform this into an erotic variation, consider that there are 13 possible ways to tie each other. You can design a foreplay menu for the face value of each card. The winner of each mini-war gets the pleasure reward assigned to the matching card. And if you win a double or triple war, your lover removes an article of clothing. Or, include Jokers with a zero value - win a Joker and you must remove an article of clothing. The player who wins all the cards or has the most after a specified time limit wins their favourite sex play activity or fantasy. You can even create a sex menu with winning events assigned to the last winning card. Note that lower cards have a rarer chance of winning so assign more exotic sex activities to these cards.
Make your sex life a priority in your relationship -- it is an essential component of a happy and successful marriage. It may take some effort to keep your passion fires burning in a long term relationship but mutual fun and sensual pleasure will definitely help. Loving, playful sex together is a bonding opportunity that strengthens your relationship and enriches your lives. Adult play is essential - take the time to have fun, experience wonderful pleasures and be happy. Bring as much joy into your world as you can.
The Erotic Engineer & Founder of Succulent Enterprises Inc. is the foreplay game designer and webmaster for Sexy Suggestions, Creations Foreplay, Frisky Foreplay, Couples Games, Bedroom Games and Games for Couples. These websites are intended for couples who are looking for creative foreplay and sex play ideas. With my wife Barb, our mission is to provide resources that inspire couples to creatively enhance their relationship with a wide spectrum of shared pleasures. It is our goal to promote creative sexual ideas and techniques to help couples experience greater intimacy and pleasure. We are dedicated to helping you Creatively Craft Climaxes.
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